Interpersonal human relationships in my experience seem to have a lot complexity and non-duality to have healthy composition, durability and authenticity. A general guess would be that most of us don’t disregard the concept of loyalty in the abstract. For instance, there are (with loads of hypothetical exceptions) good reasons to be loyal to value of honesty. To pursue a pure dualistic course leads to a conclusion of being loyal to not being loyal. The point is this: If we can find our authentic honesty, kindness, respect, meaning, purpose, commitment, optimization, forgiveness, mercy, grace, acceptance, challenge, courage, open-mindedness and, yes loyalty, to our own life along with an alchemist’s brilliance of similar consideration for all things and others — then relationships aright themselves systemically. If we ask enough repeated “whys” to become frustrated and annoyed, isn’t the problem is always ourselves?